March 7th, 2019 Dear Dad, I'm starting to see what you like about these books. The beautiful poetic descriptions. The common piece of the wide-open lands. The cowboys, the horses, the quiet and peace and beauty. Reading the descriptions makes me want to write. I want a small house with a deck and a backyard to sitContinue reading "Rewriting The Story"
Sharing Stories – Finding Connections
A friend once told me that she never realized how lonely grief can be. Yet when we read stories, it's a way of connecting and sharing our feelings. We feel understood.
The Greatest Gift
In this heartfelt piece, the author reflects on a mysterious encounter—was it a dream, a memory, or a visitation? The scent of sawdust and the unexpected gift of a cedar chest evoke memories of her father. Love endures beyond earthly bounds, woven into every word.
The Weight of Grief
I recently read about work horses to find them described as docile, patient and how they can carry heavy loads. Grief can be a heavy load. It's funny because when you are in the midst of grief, so many people will tell you how strong you are, yet when you are dealing with it you do not feel strong.
Dreams of My Father
Elissa reflects on her dreams of her deceased father, expressing frustration and a longing for closure. She recalls meaningful moments with him and seeks guidance and signs from him. Additionally, she finds significance in encountering a bat and feels her father's presence at unexpected places, leading her to accept the comfort that "bullshit" beliefs bring her.
Hands
The writer recounts memories with their father, cherishing his influence through cooking, baking, and shared experiences. They reflect on his hands and the role they played in their life, from nurturing and creating to struggling with illness. Ultimately, they express their love and longing, finding solace in continuing traditions and writing to honor his memory.
There Was No Funeral
Elissa shares her heartfelt letter to her departed father, expressing her mixed emotions of sadness, anger, and longing for his presence. She describes the unconventional decision not to hold a funeral but to donate his body to medical research. Despite her doubts, she finds solace in knowing that his legacy will live on through the students he has impacted.
Dying on the Inside
The post is a heartfelt reflection on the complex emotions of grief after losing a loved one. The author candidly describes unexpected reactions, internal struggles, and the gradual process of healing. Despite the pain, they find moments of laughter, strength, and continued connection with their loved one's memory, offering hope for others experiencing similar loss.
Million Dollar Baby
This post details the author's first experience with loss, specifically the passing of a beloved grandmother figure, and her childhood memories at the Oliver Watson Home. The unique living situation, quirky residents, and heartwarming moments with her "Gram" are vividly described, leaving a lasting impact on her life. The author's poignant recollections highlight the enduring nature of cherished memories.
Letters To My Father #5
The letter expresses the writer's journey through grief, acknowledging the fear of forgetting cherished memories of her father. Sharing meaningful anecdotes, she pays tribute to her dad at his memorial, highlighting his love for simple things and the joy of their quiet moments together. The writer finds solace in believing that her father's spirit lives on.
Adventures of the Traveling Grief Case 